The next time you're attracted to someone, ask yourself what attracted you? Beauty, or grace, or elegance, or power, or intelligence? Whatever it is, know that that quality is blossoming in u! Pay attention to those feelings, and you can begin the the process of becoming more fully yourself.
Of course, the same is true of people who repel you. We are repelled by people who reflect back to us traits that we deny in our own selves. So if you are having a strong negative reaction to someone, you can be sure that they possess some traits in common with you, traits that you are not willing to embrace. If you are willing to accept those quailities, then they wouldn't upset you. In becoming more fully your true self, you have to understand and embrace the less attractive qualities in yourself.
